In 2013, James Taylor performed in Salt Lake City, Utah with the Mormon Tabernacle Choir. (Isn't that how all good stories start? No? Too bad, it's important.) I heart James Taylor, so naturally, I signed up for tickets. However, a week or two before the concert, something came up and I wasn't able to go. So, I posted on Facebook to offer the tickets to anyone who could use them. My friend claimed them for she and her son to use and I was excited to share them with her.
The night before she was coming to pick the tickets up, I went to pull them out of my wallet and put them on my bedside table. But, they weren't there. And they weren't already on my bedside table, and they weren't in the kitchen... then I realized that I had cleaned my purse out earlier that week, so I checked my bedroom garbage can and the kitchen garbage - not there either. I felt pretty frustrated.
My roommate, Janielle, used to always say "prayer works" - usually after a story of losing her keys or purse, but always very full of gratitude. So, as I stood there in my room mad about losing the tickets, I heard a little Janielle voice in my head say "prayer works" and, though I thought it might be dumb to pray to find tickets, I knelt down and decided I'd pray until I stopped feeling dumb about it. As I started to pray, I remembered that it was garbage day, but we'd forgotten to take our big garbage can out to the curb that morning. Which meant that if I'd thrown the tickets away, they'd still be out in the garbage bin somewhere.
I started to feel hopeful that that's where they could be, but remembered that my neighbors were having a party in their back yard. I worried about what they would think of their neighbor dumpster diving at 11:00 PM on a Friday night. SO lame. "I really don't want to look in the garbage can", I prayed. And then a soft voice said "If I lead you to exactly what you're looking for, does it matter where I send you to look?"
I was humbled and I agreed that I could look in the dumpster in front of my partying neighbors if that's where I would find the tickets. Shortly after that, I opened my eyes and saw the tickets right on top of my bedroom garbage can (which I swear I looked through before). I said a prayer of gratitude and got the strong impression that I needed to compare this experience to dating.
I learned that it doesn't matter where you find what you're looking for, how you find what you're looking for, or even if it doesn't look like what you're looking for (cough, shorter than me, cough) - Heavenly Father will still guide you to exactly what you're looking for AND He'll give you the peaceful confirmation that you've found something right.
So, I started learning how to let him guide me through my "dating dumpster".